arbiter of cool, issue 12

song: "crying at the discoteque" by alcazar

Music video by Alcazar performing Crying At The Discoteque. (C) 2000 BMG Sweden.

another euro memory.  i recall watching this in italy on MTV (in ancient times when they played music videos) while lounging on the sofa with my cousins.  i remember thinking, "what the...?  oh well.  whatever."  

PROS:

  • extremely catchy and danceable
  • contains the line "you wore a tie like richard gere..."
  • features people wearing animal masks
  • "discoteque" is in the title

CONS:

  • none

quote: 

"l'amore arriva quando lo si smette di desiderare ansiosamente.  e' l'ossessivo attaccamento ai desideri, di qualunque natura siano, che impedisce di realizzarli.  l'ideale e' desiderare senza avere bisogno."  

"love arrives when you stop anxiously craving it.  it's the obsessive attachment to desires, of any kind, that makes it more difficult to create them.  the ideal is to desire without needing." - from a horoscope of a 2007 issue of the italian vanity fair.  

article:

i don't understand how people lack curiosity, but if you're in need of a reminder of its power, read this:

Six Kinds of Curiosity: And How You Can Use Them to Change Your Life by Brian Grazer & Charles Fishman.  they just published a book, A Curious Mind: The Secret to a Bigger Life, via changethis.com, which is dedicated to spreading great ideas.  they provide tons of insightful PDFs for free download.  i never leave the site without grabbing a few bundles of knowledge.

something inspiring/exciting/beautiful/powerful:

the pattern library is a project by tim holman and claudio guglieri that collects designs by "the most talented designers out there" for your free use.  it's mesmerizing!  to participate, just send your URL, twitter handle and tileable pattern to patterns@thepatternlibrary.com.