stories of dumb dates for your amusement (mostly) and edification (a little)

here’s a collection of lame romantic situations i’ve survived.  although each is still vivid to me, you may have forgotten about them.

the important aspect is they were all lessons, mostly about boundaries.  and how smoothly life runs when you have clear ones.  hope you enjoy reading them more than I enjoyed living them.

I’m using a different setup to show these posts but I’m afraid it’s not the clearest.  below are links to four: “the calendar app,” “FaceTime,” “turn that mule around, juan valdez,” and “tinder rebuttals, i.e. i speak snark”