“always look to see if anything that you are facing as a problem is a negative thing or a positive thing.
if it is a negative thing then don’t fight with it; don’t bother about it at all. just look for the positive of it, and you will be at the right door…before you face a problem, just look at it—is it an absence of something?
and the truth is that all your problems are the absence of something. once you have found what they are the absence of, then go after the positive.
the moment you find the positive you have found the light, and the darkness is finished.” - “being in love: how to love with awareness and relate without fear” by osho